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Whether it鈥檚 addressing a personal crisis or a nation in turmoil, bestselling author and social commentator David Brooks shared stories about himself interspersed with bits of wisdom learned from others in his conversation with Chancellor Philip DiStefano this week.听

The Center for Leadership hosted Brooks as the featured speaker in the fifth annual Leo Hill Leadership Speaker Series. This year, more than 4,500听people from across the country dialed in to attend this remote event, intended to highlight the importance of moral character and social responsibility.听

Prior to the event, Brooks carved out time to chat with 彩民宝典 students involved in a variety of leadership programs on campus. Brooks said he鈥檚 never seen a generation so 鈥渕orally passionate, sometimes too morally passionate.鈥澨�

Here are some key takeaways:

Find your purpose in life

• Divide your life into chapters and set goals for, say, the next three years. The happiest people assess their lives and interests, set goals and try new things that excite them. 鈥淭he most unhappy people lead day-to-day lives鈥︹��
• Ponder what is truly beautiful to you. What are you doing when you lose track of time completely? Do more of that.
• Ask yourself: What is life asking of me and what problems are out there that I鈥檓 uniquely suited to serve vs. what do I want to do with my life?
• Distinguish happiness from joy. Joy happens when you forget about yourself, when you鈥檙e dancing with friends, when you鈥檙e a teacher and seeing a student achieve something that they never achieved before. Sometimes, shoot for happiness, but joy is better.

Slow down

• Don鈥檛 allow yourself to get so busy that you lose time for self-reflection and for the things and people that matter to you.
• If you receive some big award, accolade, or a giant raise and it doesn鈥檛 make you feel happy or joyful, figure out why and make course corrections in your life.

Read

• Like one of Brooks鈥� University of Chicago professors said: If you read deep books carefully, you will find the keys to life.
• Read Jane Austen to learn about love, relationships and marriage, especially if you鈥檙e resistant to the idea of dating. Marriage is one of the most single important decisions you will make.听
• Use social media wisely. Set limits on use. Build connections around common interests.

Be kind, be a weaver

• Ask yourself, am I lonely? If the answer is 鈥測es,鈥澨齳ou are not alone. Take steps to connect to others, especially those who are different from you in places you rarely go. Join a book group. Have dinner with friends.
• You don鈥檛 have to be rich and famous to be a trusted and valued person in your community. Be kind. Help others. Be vulnerable.听
• Reject the culture of individualism.听听

Learn about Brooks鈥� 鈥渨eaver鈥� movement.听 is an initiative within the Aspen Institute founded by Brooks that emphasizes shifting from the American mindset from hyperindividualism and personal success to relationalism, which places relationships at the center of our lives).